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Season of Love

Season of Love

Marked by priceless details, this black-tie party proved worth the wait

For Blair Gottfried and Brian Church, finding love in their mid-thirties led to a whirlwind romance during which time seemed to stand still. “On our first date, we talked for more than three hours, had one beer, forgot to order food, then realized that it was 10 o’clock,” laughs Blair, who made plans with Brian again the very next day. Their courtship progressed quickly, and two years later, Brian surprised Blair with a proposal during a trip to Portugal.

In planning their January nuptials at The Charleston Place, the Lowcountry residents envisioned a black-tie winter celebration that felt inviting rather than stuffy. The pair appreciated being able to hold the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception in a single location but wanted each part of the evening to feel distinct yet cohesive. So, they hired the floral and event pros at Gathering to help with the cozy design, which embraced a rich emerald and gold color scheme, velvet linens, moody candlelight, and textural florals.

Thoughtfully incorporated touches also played into the wedding’s intimate atmosphere. Brian had the words la vie en rose sewn into his tux, a reminder of a special song from early in their relationship. Custom dessert counters gave a nod to the Viennese tables the bride remembered seeing at family weddings as a girl. At the ceremony, a close friend officiated alongside the rabbi, and Blair donned a family heirloom wedding band that Brian “bought” for the occasion from her aunt for one dollar—a sentimental gesture that became a priceless detail in a day worth waiting for.

Top tips

  • Stay together. Blair and Brian followed advice from friends to divide and conquer during their welcome party, but the bride and groom made a point of staying side by side during the wedding reception, so they could experience the night as a pair.
  • Let the pros interpret your vision. Rather than give their planners a detailed list of what they wanted, the couple started with what they didn’t like and then trusted Gathering’s Heather Barrie and Mary Ruth Miller to translate that into a cohesive design.
  • Make the details personal. From recreating a Brussels sprout Caesar salad enjoyed on one of their first trips together to including an heirloom wedding band and a ketubah styled after a temple in the city where they got engaged, the duo infused the celebration with elements that were uniquely theirs.
  • Create moments guests will remember. The couple’s geode-slice escort wall added unexpected visual interest to the cocktail hour and reception, while a custom dessert display recalled a tradition from the bride’s childhood.

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Vendors

Venue, Catering, Bar Service, & Cake
The Charleston Place
Planning & Florals
Gathering
Photography
Julie Livingston Photography
Rentals
Loluma, EventWorks, BBJ La Tavola
Custom Dessert Display
C Creative Group
Stationery
Studio R
Entertainment
Palmetto Strings (ceremony), The After Party Experience from Sam Hill Entertainment (reception)
Bridal Attire
Justin Alexander (gown), Bridal House of Charleston (boutique)
Bridesmaids’ Attire
Revelry, Brackish (jewelry)
Beauty
Lashes & Lace
Groom’s Attire
Indochino, Brackish (tie)
Groomsmen’s Attire
The Black Tux

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